okay well i kinda get what ur saying cause I have really pale skin, blonde hair and blue eyes....but i dont put on light makeup...i dig my black eyeliner

but try a brown mascara, that way it doesnt look too dark, try a brown eyeliner...it can be really pretty...but i wouldnt use a balck unless u want a darker look

as for blush i use a peach kind of color and it works amazing cause its not too much you know?

as for lips just go with some lip gloss or a light peach color is always nice

as for the bronzer...dont try it...i love my pale skin too so just stick with foundation or powder....

hope this helps